tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post5011591314618006250..comments2024-01-15T12:17:49.418+02:00Comments on Midlife Singlemum: When Emotions Cause Social Forum AbuseRachel Selbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-83475562417663368652012-11-13T19:44:41.217+02:002012-11-13T19:44:41.217+02:00Ah, thank you. Nice.Ah, thank you. Nice.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-40085417479057393862012-11-13T19:41:51.332+02:002012-11-13T19:41:51.332+02:00LSS, Rachel, is Long Story Short...
LSS, Rachel, is Long Story Short...<br />Liz Talhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10724914247517881834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-33906095790986382362012-11-13T07:42:33.153+02:002012-11-13T07:42:33.153+02:00Thanks Jazzy, he did. It is a shame that we tend t...Thanks Jazzy, he did. It is a shame that we tend to read about the negative events in the media as, of course, they make a good and sensational story. I was happy to restore some balance here. Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-90950503235535167132012-11-13T07:40:29.479+02:002012-11-13T07:40:29.479+02:00Thanks Mich. Sometimes in a highly emotional and s...Thanks Mich. Sometimes in a highly emotional and stressful situation we can become too bogged down in our own interpretation of things I think.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-71726138931528421162012-11-13T06:20:55.051+02:002012-11-13T06:20:55.051+02:00You have had such a good experience with this doct...You have had such a good experience with this doctor, it is right that you write about it and so eloquently too. It is good to share the positive stories at times like this, I'm sure he appreciated your link.<br /><br />xx Jazzyjazzygalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04069218745940412457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-44951668491942141142012-11-13T00:45:41.383+02:002012-11-13T00:45:41.383+02:00A good reminder for us all, it is all too often th...A good reminder for us all, it is all too often that we (all of us at times) jump to conclusions and get the maths wrong and then real lives are effected in the process. I'll pray for your doctor friend.<br /><br />Mich xMichelleTwinMumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03666267510923224699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-34999987359647011382012-11-12T23:21:04.852+02:002012-11-12T23:21:04.852+02:00True, but one's reputation also goes a long wa...True, but one's reputation also goes a long way.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-46597957613483723542012-11-12T23:09:29.690+02:002012-11-12T23:09:29.690+02:00I think we can o0nly really judge people on our ex...I think we can o0nly really judge people on our experience of them. I am glad that you had such a great experience and someone to be there to answer your questions etc and that you got your daughter who is such a blessing Jen Walshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07374363403295342745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-11791498133198098852012-11-12T19:47:56.973+02:002012-11-12T19:47:56.973+02:00The whole thing is a shame and very sad. The whole thing is a shame and very sad. Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-39738477376362710252012-11-12T19:45:52.529+02:002012-11-12T19:45:52.529+02:00Thanks Liz, well we know Israel is a small country...Thanks Liz, well we know Israel is a small country. Yes he is a good guy and I'm sure this will blow over. What's LSS?Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-64157679869025414322012-11-12T19:23:35.100+02:002012-11-12T19:23:35.100+02:00This almost feels like an attack or an insult to y...This almost feels like an attack or an insult to you too, if you know what I mean, in that this Doctor was clearly a very professional, kind, supportive man in all that you went through on your journey to your daughter, so understandably it's horrid to see him being slandered - I would feel the same way too. And I hear your empathy stretch to the woman pointing the accusatory finger as well, it's just an awful shame she wants to blame Dr. Bdoleh, make him the scapegoat for her tragedy. X.Older Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923339244117157344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-16495817606649959642012-11-12T19:22:43.750+02:002012-11-12T19:22:43.750+02:00I TOTALLY went cold when I opened your post and re...I TOTALLY went cold when I opened your post and read the name of the doctor in question. He is a good friend of my brother in law - I met him once, 17 years ago - but don't actually remember seeing him as I was high on gas and air at the time, and was about to have an emergency caeserean after 11 hours of labour that wasnt going anywhere.<br /><br />There I was totally high, and I kept saying to Dror "dont worry baby, it'll be alright"...next thing I know I am in the elevator down to the OR and the door opens and in walks Barrie Kaye (who was then doing his peds residency at Har Hazofim) to collect my new born, and then later in the OR I heard Yuval's name mentioned....<br /><br />LSS instead of worrying whether or not the baby was going to be okay - I remember thinking "oh no - Avner's friend is going to see me naked..."<br /><br />LSS - he IS good guy, and I agree with you that it is probably just a case of looking to find someone to blame for a bad situation, and I hope that this woman will retract her allegations.<br /><br />When bad things happen people always look for someone else to blame - its natural, as you said. I hope and I am sure that Yuval will survive this.<br /><br /><br /> Liz Talhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10724914247517881834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-56019178480998188712012-11-12T18:56:17.429+02:002012-11-12T18:56:17.429+02:00Thanks Liska, I sent him a link.Thanks Liska, I sent him a link.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-5641817422984723522012-11-12T18:44:38.132+02:002012-11-12T18:44:38.132+02:00Hi. What an articulate and eloquent post. You to...Hi. What an articulate and eloquent post. You told your story, of which he has a starring part, so so beautifully. I hope your blog gets picked up in search results on him, so that people can see the other side. Is there anything else you can do? Do you have access to that forum to say something there too? It is wonderful to think that you had such great care, and from a wide spectrum of people too.<br />Great post.<br />Liska xNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-56689545588669239532012-11-12T18:43:22.586+02:002012-11-12T18:43:22.586+02:00Thanks OSM, so do I.Thanks OSM, so do I.Rachel Selbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13113411205306116614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-692517788030253147.post-88370776635425797662012-11-12T18:30:53.475+02:002012-11-12T18:30:53.475+02:00You're exactly right. He sounds a wonderful ma...You're exactly right. He sounds a wonderful man. All you can do is things like this - defend him when and where you can, and, no doubt, you've let him know of your support, which will mean a great deal to him than this stranger's shoddy behaviour. Good luck. I hope things work out.Older Single Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16752771952921898184noreply@blogger.com