Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Collecting Our Gas Masks

We were going to go to the library this afternoon as we missed our regular day yesterday. The library is on the way home from nursery so we hadn't gone out of our way when we discovered that it's not open on Tuesday afternoons. Then on the way home we bumped into a friend who told me they were giving out gas masks at the local shopping centre which is 10 minutes walk from our house. We've all had gas masks since the first Gulf War in 1991 but they've taken them back, re-issued them once and then taken them back again a few years ago. I honestly don't know if they take them away when they become old and then re-issue with updated versions, or if it's to do with the security situation and preparations for war. I know we are on high alert at the moment because of the general instabilities in the Middle East. Whatever, I suppose I'd rather have them than not.

So after a quick stop for toilets, filling our water bottles, dropping off the library books and grabbing an ice-cream in a cornet, we set out to get our gas masks. DD kept forgetting what they were called:
"What are we buying?"
"We're not buying anything, they're giving them to us."
"How do you call them?"
"Gas masks."

We arrived at the mall and waited only two minutes in a short queue. I gave them my identity card and we were issued with these.


It was then that I realised I had no idea what to tell my 3 1/2yo about these mysterious boxes that we had collected and were taking home. We had the following bizarre conversation:
"Mummy, which one is mine?"
"The big one is yours and the smaller one is mine."
"This is mine?" (patting the larger box)
"Yes, that's yours."
"Can I open it?"
"No."
"I want to open mine."
"We can't, we're not allowed to open them."
"We're not allowed to?"
"No."
"When we get home we could open it?"
"No, we can never open it?"

I could tell she didn't believe me but I changed the subject. We rode on the little carousel of horses(which only costs 30p a ride instead of the whole pound it cost in Edgware). We had supper at the kebab place (big chunks of chicken breast on skewers and chips for DD while I ate the pita, hummus and salad that comes with it free). I was very proud of myself for not giving in to Burger King even though it woud have been cheaper probably.

After supper we decanted the rest of DD's orange drink into her water bottle and bagged the uneaten chicken and chips to eat later. One more ride on the horses and we walked home. All in all a very successful outing - except that we went to get gas masks. I spent the whole walk home trying to think of something to say if DD asked what the gas masks were for. I couldn't think of anything.

Once home DD had a tantrum because, as I suspected, she was sure she would be able to open her box when we got home.



Eventually I settled her in front of a dvd with the remains of her supper. Not the healthiest supper I know but those chunks of chicken are much better than a McBurgerKing hotdog. and the chips are real chunks of fried potato rather than reconstituted fake fries.


In the end DD didn't ask what the gas masks were for. She's accepted that the policeman said we're not allowed to open it. ("No, not even next week." "No, not even on Shabbat!") Tonight when she's asleep I'll hide them under the bed and hope she forgets all about them (except she won't as she's got the memory of an elephant). I think the answer is probably to go and collect your gas masks without your children as there really is no explanation suitable for a young child.

Update - tears every half an hour as she remembers that we're not allowed to open the boxes and she still wants to. *sighs*

16 comments:

  1. No matter what reassurances you give me on Twitter (or should I say HAVE given me) I am still scared that you are collecting gas masks.
    Just Google London Olympics conspiracy theories and you'll know why I am feeling a little on edge to say the least.
    I hope this is just procedure. I want you to be okay.
    Liska xxx

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  2. Thanks Liska. As I said, we are used to having them stashed under our beds and forgetting about them. I hope this will be the case. I will only be worried when they start showing infomercials about how to use them and advising us to carry them with us. I'll let you know if that happens :/

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  3. It was the fact that you mentioned gas masks that worried me too. I wondered if there had been something in the news that I'd missed (apart from the general instability). Will keep a close eye from now onwards. Polly

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    1. Thanks Polly, sorry for alarming you. I suppose I did choose the title for it's shock/intrigue value - that's what title's are for, but we really are used to having our very own gas masks to treasure and hopefully never use again. (We did use them during the first Gulf War.)

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  4. Going to the library - ordinary - collecting gas masks - not. I really hope that it is not any more worrying than the iodine tablets that were issued in Ireland a number of years ago. Just in case. And they were not to be opened either xx

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    1. I'm sure it's the same feeling. You do as you're told and carry on. Thanks Blue Sky.

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    2. PS I hope I haven't missed your birthday x

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    3. Don't worry, there'll be a countdown :).

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  5. Poor DD... How confusing it must be, and not that particularly nice for you obviously. Hoping she forgets about the box, and hoping you can forget about them too, and that they stay where they are permanently, under the bed!

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  6. We got our new gas masks about a year ago (when we gave back the old ones). I don't think I've been without a gas mask in the house in the last 20 years. So I don't think the situation has changed - maybe you just didn't pick one up last time they were gving them out for whatever reason.
    And I agree - go pick them up without kids. If it looks like they will be needed, let the kids decorate the boxes and explain to them what is inside, and I would even show them the instructional videos online so they know what to expect. There is nothing like trying to put a gas mask on a child who had no idea what to expect...

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    1. They came to the door and collected mine about five years ago (or even more) and I never bothered to get another one. I didn't know we were supposed to. Regarding what to tell a small child if we do have to use them, I thought of telling her that there may be a bad smell so we have to wear them so we don't smell it. I'm really not expecting to have to use that line.

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  7. Wow. I'm not sure what you say to a wee one about collecting the gas masks, as you don't want her to be frightened. I'm a bit frightened for you though. Stay safe. Vix x

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    1. Someone said it's like having a smoke alarm - you hope you'll never have cause to use it but you feel safer for having it in the house. DD is still fixated on opening the box rather than what's inside though.

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  8. Gosh what are you supposed to say to a child about gas masks - sounds like you handled it really well - I hope this is just a formality,and nothing more than that! Sounds like you had a lovely time at the fair - chicken kebabs - yum!

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    1. DD kept saying, while we were at the restaurant, "we're having a lovely time, aren't we." And the walk home (and the tantrum) tired her out. Except for the gas mask bit, it was a lovely afternoon.

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